Sunday, February 27, 2011

Lessons from reality TV

Perhaps this is just a sorry attempt to justify the hours I spend viewing bad reality television, but I've been thinking a lot lately about how grateful those shows make me for my family.

One theme that keeps coming back to me as I watch Say Yes to the Dress and Jon & Kate Plus Ei8ht is that I am sooo thankful for my mom. Of course, I'm grateful for my dad, too, but these shows are more about the moms. And the moms are CRAZY! Daughters will come out in a gorgeous dress that they are obviously in love with, and the mom will say, "Really? I think it makes your hips look big." It's unbelievable. So grateful that my mom knew to be tactfully honest when asked but also knew that her main job in dress shopping was moral support.

And don't even get me started on Kate Gosselin. There are so many problems with her mothering skills. But one particular sad thing is that she says she does the TV show so she can give her kids opportunities they wouldn't have otherwise---like going on lavish vacations. But, when they're on vacation, the kids complain the whole time (of course...they're kids). I can guarantee you they would give up the hot air balloon rides, the spa days, the over-the-top birthday parties to have a happy mom who would get on the floor and play with them. While I was fortunate in that I did get to take fun (but not over-the-top) vacations with my family, the memories I look back on most fondly are singing silly songs in the car together, playing games in our living room, going on church trips together.

I'm so thankful for the great example my mom was and is to me. I've always known she's a great mom, but the older I get, the more I appreciate her. And speaking of my mom, she started a blog! So, you should go check it out. I'm sure she'll have plenty of nice things to say about me. ;)

5 comments:

Mary Kay said...

What a precious blog! I have a feeling you will be a great mom too! I know your mom has to be so proud of you! Love ya girl!

Matt said...

So close to justifying watching those shows....

Sallie said...

I am at a loss for words (believe it or not). Thank you so very much...you kids make it easy to enjoy being a mom.

The Lances said...

I think this is the sweetest post ever! As a Mom, I can only hope that one day my children will feel the same way about their childhood. So sweet Kayla!

Judy Jones said...

I love reading your blog because I have watched you grow up, and I am almost as proud of you as your parents are! I also know that every nice thing you say about your parents is absolutely true. What a blessing the Anderson family has been to so many! And you are obviously carrying on the legacy. You and Darby will be wonderful parents when the time comes! Love you!